
Panhandling, What’s a Person to Do? - Many years ago, when I worked in downtown Seattle and rode the Metro, the homeless men on skidroad who came by would bum cigarettes. At the time I smoked and would give them one. I recall another person at the bus stop saying I shouldn’t do that. But it is interesting, during that same time when I was running to the bus (near the Union Gospel Mission I tripped, falling in the middle of the street. Other business people neither stopped to help nor asked if I was alright. But a homeless man did, both stop to help me up and ask if I was okay. Another time, while sitting under the Viaduct eating lunch in my car, a fellow came by asking if I could spare some change, I said, ‘No, see I can’t even pay the parking meter.’ He paused, dug into his shabby clothing, withdrew a handfull of change, fed my meter and walked on. There are men who have been frequenting an exit from the freeway I traverse in my personal vehicle as well as my school bus on a daily basis. Several of them have been panhandling at that location for several years. YEARS! I have made it a habit anymore not to give money, but when I have unopened food items I will give them. This man’s sign read ‘Homeless Veteran, Hungry, Will Work, God Bless.’ I had a grapefruit left over from my lunch. I rolled down my window, proffered the fruit, to which the man replied, ‘Oh, I can’t eat grapefruit, it interferes with my heart medication.’ I was dumb struck to say the least.
But I also recall another situation not too long back, a dirty, skinny, man approached my husband as he went in to use the restroom at Jack In the Box, my husband turned him down. As I sat there I realized the dogs hadn’t eaten breakfast, so I got out of the truck to go buy them each a buck burger. The man asked me for money. I said, ‘No.’ But as I was standing in line to to buy burgers to feed my dogs, I kept thinking about the man outside. So I bought him two one buck burgers and gave him the sack on my way back out to the truck, he said, ‘Thanks.’ As we pulled away, he was sitting on top of a garbage can eating the burgers I’d given.
I gave money to a gal looking for gas money at Fred Meyer once and then felt very foolish afterwards.
There have been other situations as well, some I gave wisely, some not. The best conclusion I have come to is as the Lord prompts me to give, I do, as wisely as I know how and then leave what they do between them and Him.